My parent's divorce

I am always having a dream that I have complete parents. I was grown with my mother. I live with my mother because when I was seven years old my parents have divorced. I did not know exactly the reason their divorced; I was very young to know about that. I was trying to be mature in that age, such as go to the school alone and took my report by myself because my mother was busy with her job. I always try to accept the reality that my family is not complete like another child so I am jealous with my friends that have complete parents. Honestly, my parent’s divorce has had several effects on my life.

My parent’s divorce gives an effect to my psychology. We cannot pretend that parent’s divorce sometime make a child feel angry with their parents. Sometime I cannot control my emotion. When I feel angry or disappointed, I always try to blame my parents. The condition around me always make me easily feel depress, dissatisfied and stress. It is cause by anger the children to their parents. Due to the anger, children cannot control their emotion because in the past they saw their parents yelled each other and that was very bad situation. Sometimes, the children can be very sensitive or do not care with the circumstance. For example, I always feel offended when my friends talk about their complete family.

Parent’s divorce gives an effect to the social life too. The victim’s children divorce thinks that they are different from another so they always try to feature their self to cover their inferior feeling. They cover their anger with the pretending such as humor’s personality. “I always want to be spotlight” yes, that is the example. They do that because they less parent’s attention. They try to find happiness in other place because they think that house is uncomfortable place.

The last is an effect to the children future. There is possibility that children become individual and do not respect with their family or parents and always blame their parents about their life. When the children grow up, perhaps they still feel inferior so they become individual and anti-social. It is not for the whole victim’s children divorce, but most of them. Most of them put a grudge feeling to their parents. For example, I do not want to meet with my father because I still cannot forgive him for leaving my mother in the past in the bad condition. The effect also gives trauma for the children to make relationships when they are adult. A scare of failure is always haunting their life every time.

In conclusion, parent’s divorce can gives a long term effects on children life. I think parents must be careful when they have a household’s problem. Do not show the bad things in front of children because that can give a bad effect for their life in a long term.